Problems with adult children and dating
It has reeked havoc on me physically, mentally and emotionally. His son is a wonderful young man who i get along with and has given us his blessing.I hate to be a failure but how can you fail when your intentions were pure and good? His daughter is driving me nuts..wants to tell us when we could date.listened.got engaged without her permission and she has not forgiven us.
Of course, the children do not know this because it is none of their business!Unfortunately I cannot boat anymore due to my injury. His daughter called the next day, whining to him, that he never spent any time with them anymore. Not once did they show up at the funeral home or share their condolences. My husband did bring a piano (nobody wanted), a dresser, and a grandfather clock that his wife bought for him on their 25th wedding anniversary (because he wanted it) and an older TV. Having been married to a widower for almost 8 years. I thought the resentment would fade but it is just as strong as ever.I've never treated these kids with malice or been unfair to them in any way..only thing I did was marry their father after their mother's sudden death. He has 3 daughters and I have a son and a daughter from a previous marriage. To make a long story short, it has been the most difficult, painful, frustrating, stressful and exhausting time of my life. I have tried and tried to deal with it through therapy and medication but I am still on a perpetual cycle of the true ire I feel, especially for the youngest.) and our house is filled with things I (I'd like to stress the word I) paid for before we were married.Not trying to be nasty here just trying to state the facts!
God is not proud of your successes but of your faith. All I know is that He has carried me a lot in the past 8 years. SHe said we crushed her because she wasn't ready and we had no right to do that.